I'm Hayley, I live in Seattle, and I'm in love with a beautiful girl.
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You guys. Please. Please please please. Please stop sending me 3/4/5 page advice questions about boys every single time I do an honesty hour. Especially anonymously. I simply don’t have the time or the interest to read through dozens of the same exact questions only with different wordings. I’m really trying not to be rude, and I don’t answer most of them in the hopes that people will get the hint, but it doesn’t seem to be working. So please. Just take this advice. It works for everything.

  1. If you like someone, tell them.
  2. If they like you back, date them.
  3. If they don’t like you, forget them.
  4. If they treat you right, love them.
  5. If they treat you badly, leave them.
  6. If you don’t know their true feelings, ask them.
  7. If they wronged you, fuck ‘em.
  8. If they ditch you, ditch them.
  9. If they leave you, remember that someone out there is made just for you and will find their way in to your life when the time is right. Everything happens for a reason.

There is absolutely no reason that these tips should not work. Being afraid to ask a guy out is silly. He’s a person just like you’re a person and people like people and people date people and life is fucking short so grab it by the balls and then grab him by the balls and live the absolute fuck out of your one and only life.

Have we come to an understanding?

Posted on Monday, May 13th at 07:17PM with 162 notes

tagged as: personal, boys, advice, tips,